The Hidden Cost of Holding It All Together: Early Signs of Burnout
We’ve reached September. By now, the back-to-school transition may feel like it has settled. New routines for school and work schedules may feel a little more established. The calendar starts to fill with dates and activities for all members of the family.
For some, getting back into the groove of their old routines can feel like a relief. But for others, the ever-constant demands can feel overwhelming. Trying to juggle all of the commitments between home, work, and family life can feel exhausting.
Why Back-to-School Can Feel So Hard
Transitions can be challenging for many reasons. Throw in challenges with executive functioning and sensory processing, and the struggle is REAL.
Common obstacles include:
Difficulty shifting from a more relaxed summer schedule
Increased decision fatigue
Overstimulation from busy mornings, school events, and crowded drop-off lines
Forgetting paperwork or deadlines
Navigating multiple communication methods from your child’s school
Creating Predictable Routines
Instead of trying to adhere to a rigid schedule, think of some anchor points to use as a base for how you want your day to flow. Once you have those anchor points, choose only one or two non-negotiable habits to attach onto those points. Start small and focus on progress over perfection.
Supporting Regulation
Your needs matter too. Navigating a big transition can often call for some more intentional sensory input to help with overall regulation.
Some ideas include:
A 5-minute walk outside before school pickup
Stretching while waiting for your coffee to brew
Deep pressure though a weighted lap pad or heavy blanket
Listening to your favorite song in the car
Having a crunchy or chewy snack
Taking a few minutes of quiet time after school (for the whole family!)
Expect a Transition Period
The first week (or even first month) isn’t a test of whether your routine works. Think of it as doing an experiment and you are just collecting data. Notice what feels easy and the parts you dread. Then, you can adjust from there.
Ask yourself:
Which part of the day feels the most draining?
What could become simpler?
Which part feels like it’s the most helpful?
You Deserve Support Too
Many neurodivergent parents spend so much time and effort supporting their children that they forget about their own needs. Occupational therapy isn’t just for kids. Our practice helps neurodivergent adults manage overwhelm, navigate executive function challenges, and support sensory processing needs. If you’re interested in learning more about our occupational therapy practice, feel free to contact us.
